After finally putting things with my crazy ex behind me, I realize that I've been off the dating scene for over 4 years, and that, as both of my exes asked me out first, I actually have no experience with starting a relationship.
I talk to girls who I think are cute in my classes, and i've even asked a few to hang out with me some time, but when I do, despite getting what I believe are signals, I have no idea how to move in. I don't want to say something really cheesy, like "you look so cute right now, I'd really like to kiss you." But I'm afraid that I might be misreading "friend" vibes and I'll embarrass myself, since in the past, the work was done for me.
I also know that none of the girls I've asked on dates seem like they would be long-term-relationship material, as some are too young (i'm 21 and they're 18 and seem to have so much less life experience) or some aren't smart enough (don't have same interests, read as much or as intellectual of things as I do) don't dress well enough (I take pride in looking good, and I believe the girls I like should hold the same standards) but my female friends tell me that I'm being too picky and I should just start a relationship (as that is what I'm looking for; I love relationships) otherwise I'll never fully move on.
Any thoughts on what I should do? How I should move in? How I should be certain about signals? If I should start a relationship that I'm not Positive has long-term potential if I think it'll help me move on? I'd really like some suggestions. Thanks so much!