Originally Posted by
dj454
She had a bad situation with her ex as did I and we run into each other at work sometimes and we talk up a storm. It makes us both feel better but we work in different departments and it's hard to get time to talk. We ran into eacg other in the hall last week and talked for 30 minutes and we had to make.ourselves stop so we could get back to work. She told me we need to go to lunch together so we can vent to each other.
Originally Posted by
dj454
Am I wrong to vent to her? My gf won't talk to me about anything. It helps me to talk and keeps me balanced. What do you suggest?
This is how affairs start. Sorry, but she shouldn't be venting to you nor vice-versa. If you need to complain about your marriage, do it with your male buddies or a counsellor.
Lunch to discuss work is fine. I do this all the time. But you are describing something very different.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh