in love and got an eye contact problem with her

[Nickkal]

Hi,i need some help..im in love with this girl,i have known her for years but dont see her that much..iv been in love with her for like three years...we always use to be really close friends.The thing is that since i fell for her iv become very closed with her....too closed..she might think that iv become boring,i dont know...

iv tried twice to tell her that i love her but cant seem to get any time alone with her if you know what i mean and things just go wrong.

we used to be like pretty close, have lots of fun,and she used to enjoy beeing around me but ever since i got a crush on her i can hardly speak to her......

the most serious thing is that i just cant make eye contact with her and just dont know what to talk about when im in front of her. please help

[FullofSighs]

This is something you have to solve on your own. You need to get rid of your shyness and just ask her out on a date or something. But cowarding in fear like this won't help anything at all

[Nickkal]

...i know..its so freaking hard

[rateyes]

trying just talking to her like shes a friend again. once you label her your 'crush' most guys shut down. just gotta pretend shes an average girl like all others, and you should be ableto tlak to her fine.