My Cousin...

[trotz]

I have a crush on my cousin (this isnt hillbilly incest lol)... but technically she is my 2nd cousin b/c shes my mothers-cousins daughter. Shes always checking me out, and we dont see each other often... would it be alright to make a move?

[bluestrattos]

i don't see a real problem. Go for it and Good Luck

[sfalexi]

S'long as you know that it is illegal for anything under 3rd cousins to marry. Which means many people will see an immorality in you being with your third cousin. We can't stop you, but use whatever conscience you have on this. Don't ask US if it's ok. In reality, what's the "ok" of complete strangers anyway? Worry about what the people you're going to see everyday and yourself will think.

Rod Steele

[bluestrattos]

really? I didn't know that. In my country was (i think it still is) aloud even between 1st degree cousins .

[kronos51]

Well, in America you can marry your 2nd cousin, and honestly there isnt that much common relation between you (what is it, 3 generations back that is in common?) Just be careful, cuz it might cause a stir in the family

[KirstyM]

Yeahh.... I would seriously consider what impact it could have on your family before you even think about making a move

[xxxrmrpma]

Think of the troubles you might have when people realize that you are distantly related. You might not care, but a lot of people probably do.