Hey everyone, this isn't about me is as it is about a good friend of mine, and I'm trying to figure out what is best to do.
You see I have this female friend of mine who I really care about, and she has this boyfriend that she worships the ground he walks on. The problem is that he lives on the other side of the world doing his band thing, and all he sends it a bunch of measly postcards just to say where's he's been. She's 21 and I have no idea on how old he is, she claims she's waiting for him, and she speaks the world of him. I have heard from a few people including her, that he has cheated on her and she has always looked the other way.
He's in Amsterdam for a year or more, and all I hear from her from time to time is,"oh I miss him so much" crap. I really want to somehow reunite these people, but how beats the hell out of me.
How should I handle this with her? She's so seems so in love with him, and at the sametime she told me that he had never professed his love for her? What's up with that? Is she in a fantasy world? She is a hopeless romantic, and I fear that she may set herself up to be hurt bigtime. She's a good friend, and I don't want to see her cry. I even tried to have my Exwife/GF to talk to her. She won't listen.