don't ask her ...
don't make it seem like you know nothing about what she wants ... or she'll think you're not perceptive enough ... get her the plaque and some flowers or something and you're all the way nice ... but don't make yourself seem too clueless, you know?
[EDIT]
HOLY F*CKIN' SHIT ... sorry guys ... I replied in the "Ask a Female" forum ... so I guess take my advice with a grain of salt ...
no autographs, please!
The more I see, the more I don't know for sure. - John Lennon
Life is ... Too Short.
"It seems we living the 'American Dream', but the people highest up got the lowest self-esteem. The prettiest people do the ugliest things ... for the road to riches and diamond rings."