please help.... QUICK

[AndrewL]

know that we are both 17, and this is a long distance relationship. KK me and my gf met 6 months ago and we've been in love ever since.. now when we first met i lied to her... later that night we had sex and she asked me if i had ever been with anyone else... i said i had been with 3 other girls... Now after this night i told her the truth about the other lie which was a stupid one and i told her i would never lie to her again... which i havent besides keeping up the lie of how many people i had slept with.. Now tonight 6 months later i told her the truth about the other lie... that she was infact my first. Ive been going crazy thinking i might loose her but more so i dont know if i can forgive myself for lying to her...

I need some help and feedback. Do i have any chance she will still want to be with me? any Advice on what to do?

[sir_vile_minds]

I'm taking it you were nervous and maybe embarrassed to say you'd never had sex with anyone else? If that's so I think you should tell her that and if she truly loves you she'll accept the fact you were just shy/nervous. I remember when I was 17 and people would ask "Have you ever had sex?" and all I'd do was turn my back or ignore them because I was too embarrassed.

Note key word: Embarrassed.

Good on you for telling the truth though. She accepted that you'd slept with 3 others and she should accept you have now only slept with her.

[richeanne]

Look stop frettin like some 3 yr. old. I'd be happier to know if I was my guys' first. So just chill and have some beer.