OK, how do I get through this (Is this the end of it?): she took a cat in to the vet. I was able to hear from her today which is the day it happened and the last she said was that the cat was getting X-rays. I just said, my thoughts and hopes are with you and your cat. I haven't sent anything since. Should I ask how the x-rays turned out? Wait a few days? We were scheduled tentatively to meet on Friday but might this mean I should push back? In fact, is it a possibility that her grieving if it goes poorly (i.e. the cat dies) means she might just not want to meet me or talk until she's ready/ever again?
I am feeling like she might use this to get out of our meeting on Friday/stop talking to me altogether. What do you think? Do I even text and ask her what the X-ray results were yesterday?
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19-06-13, 02:05 AM #1
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Is it over before it began? :(
"1,2,3,4.....The highway's jammed with broken heroes on a last chance power-drive!"
"Glory days/Well, they'll pass you by/Glory days"
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19-06-13, 02:13 AM #2
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Don't give up so easily.
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19-06-13, 02:18 AM #3
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What do I do now?
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19-06-13, 02:36 AM #4
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Why should I help you? I'm serious here, give me a reason I should want to help you.
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I can't. The only reason you need is if you want to.
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19-06-13, 02:44 AM #6
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I don't particularly want to.
So, the only option at this point is for me to either give you help out of the goodness (lmao) of my black heart, or for us to enter into a transactional relationship. I'm going with option "B". Give me something I want.
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19-06-13, 03:13 AM #7
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What is it you want? And no, I won't be doing you any "favors", ya part-time gaywad.
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19-06-13, 03:31 AM #8
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LOL, good one. Was going to suggest you lay off of FOL, but you just ****ed up yet again.
Too bad.
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19-06-13, 03:34 AM #9
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I can't lay off queeroflove. Too obnoxious for me not to respond in kind to.
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19-06-13, 03:38 AM #10
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Fine with me. Wasn't interested in helping you anyhow.
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19-06-13, 03:41 AM #11
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Someone else will come along with altruistic intent on helping me and will help me. Don't need you, anyway.
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19-06-13, 03:46 AM #12
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Cool beans.
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Cool story, bro.
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yc its a freaking cat. sure shell be upset but shes not gonna put her whole life on hold. text her and ask how it went. shes prob waiting to hear from you
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19-06-13, 06:20 AM #15
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LOL, you've obviously not known any cat owners like the ones I've known. Was all set to give the poor little insecure-in-his-orientation twit some advice on how to spin it to make himself look positive to her, but now he can crash and burn all by himself.
Originally Posted by michelle23
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