More conjecture to fuel your paranoia. Josie. Stop coming here and expecting to get answers for your problems from us. Talk to your boyfriend and insist on the answers without you freaking out while asking. If you find out he has done her six times on sunday and twice on monday.. will you leave him then or will you stay anyway? What difference does it matter to you if he ****ed her or he didn't? He has been involved with her in a way that is inappropriate... that much is the truth and that much you know. Now get the rest from him and if it turns out he's been ****ing her ass off then make sure you've enough strength in you to leave him or forgive him.. but you can't stay and not forgive him because that will very likely lead to either him stepping out again or you or stepping out on him in the future. No one wants to be in a relationship of the monogamous kind where each day you are being tested, not trusted or trusting, bitched at or bitched to, treated like shit, punished and not appreciated. So figure it out.
Last edited by Wakeup; 08-08-13 at 05:31 AM.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion