My girlfriend and I were having a fight one day and we decided not to talk for the night and just talk the next day. Come to find out the next day she tells me that she hung out with her ex who she has told me she wouldn't hang out with, but she did because she needed someone to talk to and her best friend had plans. I was really hurt at first, but we had been struggling lately because I had been having some jealousy issues. Do I have a right to be uncomfortable with her talking to and hanging out with her ex? Her two best friends don't like her ex at all and strongly advised her not to hang out with her but she did anyways. I'm the only one that's said not to go hang out with her.
It caused a fight and we almost broke up over it. My question is what should I do in this situation? Her ex has a girlfriend, but was it wrong of my girlfriend to go hang out with her ex without talking to me about it first on a night when we were fighting?
Help!
I need someone to talk me thru this. The arguments over, but I just want an outsider's perspective.
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02-06-09, 04:20 AM #1
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My gf is hanging out with her ex.
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02-06-09, 04:22 AM #2
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IMO, that would send the relationship to the brink of doom. What the hell was she thinking?
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02-06-09, 04:28 AM #3
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I don't know, she told me she was bored and needed someone to talk to. I don't want to be a jealous girlfriend so I've just pushed the fact she hung out with her to the side because it's not worth dwelling on, but I just think it would of been respectful of her to ask me or tell me first.
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02-06-09, 04:29 AM #4
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i would not even deal with that.
her: my boyfriend is so needy and jealous.
him: oh baby i would never be that way with you that's ****ed up. i always trusted you...
her: if we were both single it would be so great...baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
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02-06-09, 04:29 AM #5
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she didn't tell you or ask you because she knew it was wrong.
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have a backbone and dump her.baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
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02-06-09, 04:33 AM #6
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even if the arguments over? Originally Posted by misombra
she's still talking to her ex thru text. Her two best friends have told me to leave her. Can you believe that???
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Do you need a ****ing marching band and a cheerleading squad to spell it out for you?
Break up with her.
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02-06-09, 04:41 AM #8
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he isn't gonna do it.
marry her. have ten children with her. you can baby sit while her and her ex go on dates.baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
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02-06-09, 04:44 AM #9
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may i mention i'm a girl.
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02-06-09, 04:46 AM #10
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oh sorry lol.
it doesn't change my mind.baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
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Yeah, I'm considering it... This isn't the first time or the first ex she's done this with.
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02-06-09, 04:53 AM #12
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why are you putting up with it?
baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
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02-06-09, 05:12 AM #13
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oh please, there's nothing wrong with having a FRIEND. that's all she is to her.
mo'Dajvo' pa'wIjDaq je narghpu' He'So'bogh SajlIj
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02-06-09, 05:18 AM #14
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if my boyfriend had a friend of the prefered sex that he talked to when we fought and was his ex i would not deal with it.
baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
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02-06-09, 05:25 AM #15
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the way i look at it is your ex is only person who knows you inside out, thus might bring more insight to a situation knowing your flaws, instead of a stranger hearing only one side of the story.
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