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    What's the Real Reason?

    So a few months back a girl I had been semi-seeing for 6 months or so suddenly decides she no longer "feels that way" about me one day. To this day, she has yet to tell me any reason why other than "because."

    What's the real reason here? We lived 5 hours apart, but saw each other every other month usually. Every time we spent time together, things were great as far as I can tell, she never complained or said anything bad or that anything was wrong up until she decided this.

    Is this a normal thing for women to do?

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    It just wasn't enough. Most people need a regular infusion of physical affection to keep their love feelings alive. Every other month just didn't cut it. Think of relationships like houseplants that need watering. Would every other month be enough for a philodendron?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    It just wasn't enough. Most people need a regular infusion of physical affection to keep their love feelings alive. Every other month just didn't cut it. Think of relationships like houseplants that need watering. Would every other month be enough for a philodendron?
    Well it wasn't my choice, I would've saw her every weekend if she were up for it, but she wouldn't/had to work.

    Oh well...her loss.

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    Quote Originally Posted by steelsword View Post
    Oh well...her loss.
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