kisses with the boss

[hazelnut69]

my boss and i had been making out quite often.
we pretend like we have no feelings for each other at work.
but afterwork, often times we meet up or flirt on the phone.
tho we never had sex, i am not stupid to know this is "cheating" already.
with adultery aside, my concern now is whether it will effect my work?
he has family, really big in this company and alot at stake.
anybody have experienced a relationship with their boss?
how did it turn out in the end? pls fill me in.

[vashti]

Why would you want to put adultery on the side? Are you oaky with him doing this to his family? Is this the way YOU'D want to be treated? Don't you know a loser when you see one?

Yeah - this is a REALLY dumb idea, even aside from the slutiness factor. When this guy's wife finds out, you will be gone. When he gets tired of you, you will be gone. When a cuter girl starts to work there, you will be gone. When your co-workers find out, they will think you are getting special treatment and that any advancement you make at work was not earned. They will hate you, and you will WANT to be gone.

[DutchBoY]

dumb move. end it as fast as you can manage it or reap the rewards for this stupidity in the future.


and wtf is up with the double post over in off topic?

[hazelnut69]

double post was for frequent exposure. i need quick advice.

[misombra]

Why would you want to put adultery on the side? Are you oaky with him doing this to his family? Is this the way YOU'D want to be treated? Don't you know a loser when you see one?

Yeah - this is a REALLY dumb idea, even aside from the slutiness factor. When this guy's wife finds out, you will be gone. When he gets tired of you, you will be gone. When a cuter girl starts to work there, you will be gone. When your co-workers find out, they will think you are getting special treatment and that any advancement you make at work was not earned. They will hate you, and you will WANT to be gone.

i agree.
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[2 diff animals]

A kiss on the mouth is cheating.. PERIOD. Co-workers are very dangerous ground. Keep it strictly buisness.

[TAVS]

Co-workers are very dangerous ground. Keep it strictly buisness.

Agreed 100%