Why would you pay a woman money to act interested in you? I mean, if you want to make the argument that dating is similar, but typically the person still cares about you as a human after the date. With stripping you're a lonely pathetic man to them, who they can sucker money out of by rubbing their bits in your face.
I tend to give more money to the waitress than I do the strippers. Because if I have to tolerate being there for the sake of hanging w/ friends, I don't want to have to go hunt someone down for my drinks.
"Well, then," the Cat went on, "you see a dog growls when it's angry, and wags its tail when it's pleased. Now I growl when I'm pleased, and wag my tail when I'm angry. Therefore I'm mad."