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Thread: move on or Continue the chase?

  1. #1
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    move on or Continue the chase?

    hi everyone,

    I will be glad to hear you opinions.

    well I knew this girl from a bar, we talked for 30 min., then i asked for her facebook account and she gave it to me.

    I wanted to see her again, so I messaged her telling if she can help me with my taxes (she works in this field).
    she answered telling she is busy and that she will contact me after a week, but she did not!
    so I messaged her again reminding her. so replied asking for my phone number and she sugested a nice pub to meet and said we "might" meet next week and she will call me if she has time.

    so I replied with me number and told her "I hope you can come" (I think that was too forward from me!)

    she didn't call or message.

    so yesterday I messaged her again asking her out to a nice restaurant (I didn't mention the taxes anymore).

    I am waiting for her answer.

    actually I have some other contacts with other girls, but this one i think is the most interesting one among them, so I don't want to give up easily.

    but in the other hand I don't want to spend time and hopes with something that will never happened.

    The thing that makes me think she is somehow interested is that she asked for my number and she replies my messsages

    but in the other hand she never initiate anything and also my sentence "I hope you can come" might have showed I am too eager to meet her!

    So should I continue the chase? or simply she is not at all interested?
    or forget about her for a month and then message her again?

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    You've done enough. She contacts you, or nothing goes further. Move on.

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    Forget her, she's to busy doing someone else's taxes.

    I'd go for the cute accountant (number 2 on your list).
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

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    also, I am new in the new city and I would like to make new friends here. so meeting her might make us a "couple" or just normal friends just to hang out from time to time.
    should I send her a message saying, I want you to be a normal friend with me?!
    because now she may be thinking I want only to have sex (which is not true).

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    no. give it up. she ain't interested.
    baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.


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    ...met a girl in a bar...personally, I had my answer at that point. Let it go.

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