Boyfriend snooped @ my bonus check, should i be mad

[fgcg]

My boyfriend of over 2yrs snooped at my holiday card containing my work bonus check. He knew that it had my check before he opened it. This seems to be the only time he has gone through my things...that i know about but it upsets me. Do i have grounds to be angry at him? If he had just asked i would have told him the amount. He did confess without me having to approach him about it and he apologized.

[misombra]

big deal.
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[vashti]

Who cares?

[Fender]

is it you that time of the mth again?

[funsounds]

eh, big deal. as long as it doesn't become a crazy thing where he goes through all of your personal things all the time with some insidious purpose...

[fgcg]

thanks for the reality check

[boobaa]

I think you should kill him.

[funsounds]

I think you should kill him.

i change my mind...i'm with boobaa...you should kill him...

[fgcg]

and EAT him!!

[clynn]

No biggie. Where was it? Hidden in your sock drawer? Or out on the table.....

[fgcg]

in a card inside an envelope on my dresser-but its all good as long as he doesnt go through all my other stuff :-)

[Tone]

Oooh what else ya got???

[clynn]

Yah, it was a bit snoopy of him.

All depends on the open-ness of your relationship I suppose. Some people are more private about financial matters than others.

You seem pretty settled about it now, though.

[fgcg]

yeah, i dont appreciate the fact that he invaded my privacy and knows about my finances but everyones opinion here is that i shouldnt get upset-and i'm not. hey now, i can snoop through his stuff!

[Lloyd95]

So how much was it for?