why doesnt my girl like me fingering her

[johnman85]

yeah why doesnt she like it, like we are very romantic and everything and love eachother to death, and can talk and tell eachother everything, but like she will be sitting with me and i wll finger her through her clothes, but she would move my hand away, but now that we have been dating longer, she is not nervous anymore and lets me, but when i do she says that she doesnt like it, like because it feels weird, but i was thinking that she doesnt like it because im not doing it long enough. what do you think

[beanie]

i think that if you are still fingering her through clothing, she probably doesn't like it. the friction of the clothing can hurt or just feel really uncomfortable.

[gpxcrazy]

well if ur fingering her thru her clothes..ofcourse she wont like it...its like sucking a lollipop with a cover and trying to get a taste=) hehe or if ur doing with not thru her clothes..its abviouse ur not moving ur fingers rite and it just doesnt feel good.maybe it irratates her there or u mite be even hurting her...u really gotta know how to finger a girl right.shes just probably shy to tell you that,because its a very privet thing.and not every girl would talk about it.
my best advice do it very very gentle! maybe that will will solve ur problem!=) good luck!~

[bloodtippedrose]

hehe gentle is not always the answer

yeah but I think she says she doesnt like it because she is not at all used to it. you should ask her what she particularly doesnt like about it. Dont let her get away with just saying "i dunno it feels weird.." She might feel embarrassed thinking about what youre feeling. Whatever the problem is, unless she seriously does not want you to do it, then continue to do it because she doesnt know what she likes Im not saying force yourself on the girl,
Im just saying every girl loves being fingered!

Btw make sure your nails are clean and trim -_-

[vashti]

One of your previous posts says you are only 15. That being the case, perhaps your girlfriend isn't ready for sexual activity yet.

Or, she could just be thinking about your telling her you want her to take a sh*t on you, which is not particularly arousing.

She is probably just grossed out by you in general.

Oh, and with all due respect for bloodtippedrose, do NOT continue if she tells you she doesn't want you to. That behavior is actually illegal.

[gpxcrazy]

Are you serioulsy only 15???

[bloodtippedrose]

Oh, and with all due respect for bloodtippedrose, do NOT continue if she tells you she doesn't want you to. That behavior is actually illegal.

lol yeah sorry i didnt mean it that way



Youre 15? what the hell are you doing fingering little girls? Give some time for your own pubes to grow.

Side note: ..that makes me pissed. Why do younger generations adopt the older generations worst habits? I can be cussed out by eight year olds and 14 year old girls are wearing slutty things that make them look 23. Getting pregnant before they even start high school.. meaning thier unfortunate kids have to grow up with the same mentality. Why are people in general so stupid? Why are there so few well-rounded gentleman/ladies?


Hey kid heres a tip, put your dick away and pick up a book. Focus your energy into ways to become a millionaire. Then you can have money and pussy when youre older, youd be set -_-

[Nkeno]

Why doesn't she like it ? Simple: You're not doing it right !

[bloodtippedrose]

No its because shes a little girl and is too young to have little boys hands wandering her body before shes ready to deal with the consequences of sex..

[dsadsa]

girls do not know the pleasure of sex if they did not have sex before.
guys jack off when they are virgins but i rarely heard of any girls masterbating when they were virgins. this is because they do not care for the pleasure of it instead of us guys having my ding dong rubbing dangeling and rubbing against everything.
but if u are a dog and horny(like i know you are) the best way you can get your girl to be interested in sex is to eat her out. sorry girls just trying to help a brother out ,and it's true.

[Mathias]

girls do not know the pleasure of sex if they did not have sex before.
guys jack off when they are virgins but i rarely heard of any girls masterbating when they were virgins.

Then you are clearly sheltered.

[misombra]

maybe she just doesn't want your grimey paws all over her vagina.

[Gigabitch]

FYI- you aren't "fingering" her. That involves putting your finger inside her vagina. You're rubbing your hand on the seam of her pants- it probably feels really uncomfortable.

I broke up with a guy when I was 16 because he was trying to get in my pants. Don't be surprised when this happens to you as well.

[LostNotFound]

bloody hell isn't that young?

she doesn't want yo to do it. so stop

[blauw]

I'd go for the same answer like most people here...
Too Young + rubbing on clothing ( specially jeans ) don't feel comfortable at all.
I'm not saying u should rip her clothes of next time u see her! Just wait a few more years