She's coming back to me after she wanted to be "friends"

[jack2002]

Hi guys,

I was with this girl for only a couple of months but I've missed her everyday after she told me that "she wanted to be friends for now" and "we could get back together later on" . The other day she started msging me on fb really flirty messages, saying i hope i get to see you soon and stuff like that.. I still like this girl so much.. and I have barely contacted her since the break up. what should I do ? should I send her a txt? I really want this girl back but I don't want to give her the upper hand so to speak?

[lahnnabell]

She's probably missing the comfort and security of the relationship. Lots of young people do this whole "breakup-stayfriends-getbacktogether" BS. I know you like her, but it's highly likely that if you get back together so quickly that she'll pull this again. She may have even left you because she had someone else on the side, and maybe now it hasn't worked out.

Do you really want to deal with this crap?

[Sixpacj]

what lahnabelle said. she was trying to hook up with someone else, it didnt work. you are her plan B.

the best thing you can do is chalk it up to experience and move on. realise there are billions of women on this planet, which means there are hundreds of thousands fitting your needs/preferences perfectly.

[xxazurexx]

I agree with everyone else......sounds like you were the backup I'm afraid.

Even if you find out that you were not the backup, do you really want to be involved with such a 'wishy washy' female, who wants you one minute, then doesn't the next.....always fearing she's gonna walk out again?

[genesys4]

what the others were saying are true. just go for other girls...
~using the word from glee "you are the consolation prize"