biggest turnoffs/turn ons

[steven001]

What are your biggest turnoffs in a guy? What turns you on most about a guy? When you picture your ideal man what does he look like?

[Kat5]

Turn-ons: a guy who can cook, a bit of stubble, suits, men's fragrance, thoughtfulness

Turn-offs: lack of hygiene, greasy hair

[Chriso]

aaww damn i need to learn how to cook

[bluesummer]

TURNOFFS

Overinflated egos, misogyny, racism, insecurity, lack of drive, neediness, depression, ignorance, stupidity


TURNONS

Self-confidence (but not too much!), sense of humor, attentive, respectful, cultured, open minded, intelligent

[brightgirl]

What are your biggest turnoffs in a guy? What turns you on most about a guy? When you picture your ideal man what does he look like?

I know I'm going to get slammed here, but honestly, I'm attracted to traditional men - by that I mean he doesn't cook or clean, unless it's a barbeque.
I guess I'm attracted to the Alpha male - strong, confident leader types who like very feminine women. They're firey aggressive and perhaps a bit dominant. They're intelligent and commonsensical. I'm feminine, so I want the epidome of MAN, and to me a man isn't foolish or weak or timid.
Please don't assume I'm saying he's not kind-hearted or caring. He is. He's also protective and attentive. A man who pays no attention to the little things about me gets nowhere.