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    Guys who date younger women

    I'm just recently out of a relationship, and decided to try Match.com as a different venue to meet men. I met a guy that is 32, and I am 27. On his profile he specified that he was only looking for women who are 24-30 years old. What makes a man want to only date younger women, especially ones that are 2-8 years younger than he is? Should I take this as a sign that he is only looking for a good time and not a commitment? Am I reading too much into this?

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    Maybe he's looking for a breeder. Has that occurred to you, that maybe he wants to get married after two dates and start making a passel of kids?
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    I am a male just as you describe above...i tend to mesh well with younger women, they are usually hotter and come with less baggage.

    if I can get the younger women still, why not? the older women are jaded and come with too much baggage.

    im 33 and dating a 22, 25 and 28 year old. I like the 22 year old the best!

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    I don't think the age difference mentioned by the original poster is at all unusual, or even bothersome. Men tend to like to date younger because they either lack the maturity of their counterparts, or are intimidated by the expectations of a woman their age. Younger women tolerate more shit, in other words. For example, a guy in their 30s with no job? Younger girl - no problem. "he'll get back on his feet." Older woman - "loser." No car? Younger girl might say "I don't mind driving.". Older one will say "loser." A man who doesn't pay child support? Younger girl "he would love MY kids more". Older one will say "loser". Younger girls lack the life perspective to understand what they are settling for, whereas an older one is more likely to go in with their eyes wide open, and won't make excuses for his shortcomings. It's a lot of pressure, I suppose, if you aren't up to par.

    Still, I don't see the problem. It's not like he is seeking out teenagers.
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    I love Girl yang ones

    it's nice tu have a youn girl around

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    Younger women are sexier, wilder, and overall more fun. That doesn't mean I haven't met older women with the same qualities.

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    It might not be a physical thing but a mental one. The chance of finding an emotional stable women without baggage decreases exponentially as their age increases (obviously there are many wonderful older ladies).

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    simple reason why: aging process is more much more friendly physically to males.

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    It's pretty much a physical attractiveness thing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Banana9erl View Post
    I'm just recently out of a relationship, and decided to try Match.com as a different venue to meet men. I met a guy that is 32, and I am 27. On his profile he specified that he was only looking for women who are 24-30 years old. What makes a man want to only date younger women, especially ones that are 2-8 years younger than he is? Should I take this as a sign that he is only looking for a good time and not a commitment? Am I reading too much into this?
    Well, in my case...anything within the range of the normal breeding cycle would be 5-10 years younger than me. Those in my age group are probably juggling their last two eggs and wondering where their 30's went. LOL

    Ah, but in all honesty...most guys that date women 5-15 years younger then themselves are fairly insecure individuals.

    Yes, generally men do age better than women. I think that a younger woman has firmer flesh which could be an attraction. Intellectually and maturity levels, however, are often much different which is not an attraction. If the guy is immature then, he sees no problem. If the guy is mature, then he ends up raising his girlfriend and putting up with immature stuff.

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    Young girls get wet faster.

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    There's always the hope that a younger woman will not drag an immense weight of emotional baggage with her.
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    Scream and shout.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post
    Young girls get wet faster.
    hahahh!

    And this you know...... how?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    hahahh!

    And this you know...... how?
    Because old ladies don't get wet at all.

    A simple matter of logic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post
    Because old ladies don't get wet at all.

    A simple matter of logic.
    I like your logic Frasbee.

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