Ha, as I typed the title I realized what most will probably think, lol. No, I'm not talking about heterosexuality vs homosexuality. I'm talking about unisexuality. Ever since I have been married I have had basically no sex life. I remember seeing a tee shirt that showed a man and woman cutting a wedding cake, below it read "Marriage: The end of a perfectly good sex life". That message has rung true for me. I always had a raging sex drive and I used to agonize about why my wife has no sex drive. I used to loose sleep over it, and stress about it during the day.
Six months after being married I discovered artificial vaginas. I had no idea anything like that existed (yeah I was a little naive). I have never stopped buying or using artificial vaginas after that, mainly because my sexual situation never changed (wife's sex drive). I started on 'affordable' toys and eventually moved up to 'quality' toys. I am now in the golden age of my toy ownership with well made and high end toys.
That brings me to now and the reason I posted this. I am finding that I am really not interested in sex with my wife very often anymore. There are politics involved with sex, and too many things that can disrupt the frequency of it or make the actual act less enjoyable. I buy a toy, I lube it up, I use it, I feel good, done. With the wife I have to hope that she isn't pissed off at something, stressed about anything, tired,or busy and feels up to humoring my sexual needs. Not to mention that sometimes her vagina doesn't smell like anything, and sometimes it smells like a corpse. Astroglide on a toy never smells. I've never had discomfort while using a toy either, but I have gotten abrasions on my cock during sex. Not enjoyable at all and it takes a week to heal.
Someone posted a thread similar to this, but on the flip side of the coin. She, unfortunately, is with a man who flaunts his toy in her face and seemingly compares it to her. I don't do that. My wife has a limited knowledge of my toys (i.e. she knows I have them, but doesn't know how many and has never seen them), and doesn't wish to know about them. I had never considered unisexuality, but after having sex only a few times a year for so long I really don't think its worth the trouble. Also factored into that is the fact that I realize that the past years have affected my sex drive. If I could have I'd have made love, had sex and f*cked multiple times per day earlier in our marriage. Even after I moved on to toys I used to use them whenever I could, usually multiple times per day. Now she is ALWAYS in the house, which limits how often and when I can use them. This has led to an overall drop in my sex drive since I just don't have an outlet as often as I'd like, and that bothers me.
I really enjoy the female form, and I do look lustfully at my wife sometimes, but then I just think of the politics, the possible smell and dirty sheets....