+ Follow This Topic
Page 1 of 4 123 ... LastLast
Results 1 to 15 of 47

Thread: Is this lady's boyfriend too old for her?

  1. #1
    Join Date
    Dec 2011
    Posts
    10

    Is this lady's boyfriend too old for her?

    Deleted as have now had lots of replies
    Attached Images Attached Images  
    Last edited by xonerate; 15-12-11 at 04:35 AM.

  2. #2
    Join Date
    Aug 2011
    Posts
    6,314
    He does look too old for her. But hey, she's 22, if she's happy with him, good for her.

  3. #3
    Join Date
    Dec 2007
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    Somewhere in the world
    Posts
    80
    lol why does it matter if he's to old for her or not. I had a teacher in high school who married his 18 year old student, the age of the teacher 68, that's a 50 year difference is that too old probably but hey as long as they are happy who is to say that one is too old for the other.

  4. #4
    Join Date
    Nov 2011
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    England
    Posts
    16
    Personally I would be uncomfortable with a relationship with such a big age gap, but I agree with the other posts, if they are happy, respect and care for each other why not? They are both consenting adults.
    But can I just ask, do these people know that a picture of them has been posted in a public forum? I know I would be a little upset if I were them.

  5. #5
    Join Date
    Nov 2010
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    Surrey, BC
    Posts
    15,542
    They are both adults, enjoying their time together, so who cares. Obviously she has no limit on the age of people who she dates....some people are like that. You on the other hand you do and that is fine too. Personally I think he dresses like someone in his 40's (boring!)...I'm in my late 40's and would never date someone who looks like that lol......Dockers with a tucked in shirt ew!

  6. #6
    vashti's Avatar
    vashti is offline Hot love muffin guru
    Country:
    Users Country Flag
    "Hot Love Pancake(s)"
    Join Date
    Dec 2005
    Gender
    Female
    Posts
    22,890
    He's probably her father.

    Or a priest.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

  7. #7
    Join Date
    Nov 2010
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    Surrey, BC
    Posts
    15,542
    Quote Originally Posted by Riyko View Post
    lol why does it matter if he's to old for her or not. I had a teacher in high school who married his 18 year old student, the age of the teacher 68, that's a 50 year difference is that too old probably but hey as long as they are happy who is to say that one is too old for the other.

    Wow.... that's mental issues right there lol.

  8. #8
    Join Date
    Nov 2010
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    Surrey, BC
    Posts
    15,542
    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    he's probably her father.

    Or a priest.
    lol!............

  9. #9
    Join Date
    Nov 2010
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    Surrey, BC
    Posts
    15,542
    Is that someone's rec room they're at? or is it just a crappy bar?

  10. #10
    Join Date
    Apr 2011
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    Australia
    Posts
    2,088
    Firstly, how is this any of your business? Does your friend know you are splashing her fb pics all over the internet?
    That is what I consider wrong in this scenario.

    Regardless of the age thing, they don't look right together. I have an Aunt who is with a guy 15 yrs her junior (they have a 16 yr old son, so they got together before this cougar crap took off) and they look like they were made to be together. It might be superficial, but I do believe a couple should look good together. I think it adds something to the belief you have found someone right for you.
    'People are never perfect but love can be. People waste time looking for the perfect lover rather than creating the perfect love' - Princess Leigh-Cheri from Still Life With Woodpecker.

  11. #11
    Join Date
    Dec 2011
    Gender
    Female
    Posts
    13
    I don't think age-gap issues are a problem when both partners are fairly young i.e. 20s and 30. But it could be an issue when one of them is in their 70s and the other only in their 50s.

    Have to say I think it is totally wrong you posted a picture from her FB account on this forum. Can't imagine she gave permission for this!

  12. #12
    Join Date
    Nov 2010
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    Surrey, BC
    Posts
    15,542
    This post is refreshing! Ya need some silly a ss to post something like this once is awhile.... definitely gets boring with the same old crap over and over again.

  13. #13
    Join Date
    Nov 2010
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    Surrey, BC
    Posts
    15,542
    Quote Originally Posted by MaidenMinx View Post
    Firstly, how is this any of your business? Does your friend know you are splashing her fb pics all over the internet?
    That is what I consider wrong in this scenario.

    Regardless of the age thing, they don't look right together. I have an Aunt who is with a guy 15 yrs her junior (they have a 16 yr old son, so they got together before this cougar crap took off) and they look like they were made to be together. It might be superficial, but I do believe a couple should look good together. I think it adds something to the belief you have found someone right for you.

    I agree they do look out of place.....like I said he dresses like a dork.

  14. #14
    Join Date
    Dec 2011
    Posts
    10
    Quote Originally Posted by searock View Post
    He does look too old for her. But hey, she's 22, if she's happy with him, good for her.
    Yeah, I guess so. 22 is old enough to make your own decisions, at that old you can't be told what to do by anyone any more, not your parents nor anyone else...

  15. #15
    Join Date
    May 2011
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    West Michigan
    Posts
    2,267
    1. It's not about age, it's more about maturity and similar interests.
    2. You'd be surprised at some of the kinky stuff consenting adults engage in.
    3. But not all things are about kink.
    I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
    (Please note, we give the best advice we can based on the information given in a post. For better advice, please include the age of all romantic partners.)

Page 1 of 4 123 ... LastLast

Similar Threads

  1. Replies: 4
    Last Post: 07-06-11, 08:38 AM
  2. lady's mustache?
    By live4love in forum Ask a Male Forum
    Replies: 13
    Last Post: 18-04-11, 04:22 AM
  3. Lady's take on a mid 20 virgin male
    By geico101 in forum Ask a Female Forum
    Replies: 32
    Last Post: 21-01-09, 11:28 PM
  4. I like her, but she has a boyfriend.
    By airborn86 in forum Love Advice forum
    Replies: 23
    Last Post: 22-03-06, 01:57 AM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •