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Thread: I don't like him for his looks or personality, so why do I like him?

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    I don't like him for his looks or personality, so why do I like him?

    There's this guy i really like, I have had a crush on him for over a year now and it's not fading. I wanted to get over him because I think he doesn't like me, but I can't seem to get over him! I'm not really attracted to him, I would say he's average nothing special. The guys I find cute and hot are those young celebrity singer guys so shouldn't looks play a big factor in who I like when I have so many celebrity crushes? I don't know much about my crush either so it's definitely not personality winning me over. I don't know it's weird, but I had a strange click with him. I didn't notice him at first when I first met him, it took months for my crush to develop for him. I honestly don't know why I like him so much. Last year when I had classes with him I was super happy! I got to sit beside him in two classes and we talked a bit, but not much. But now this year when I have no classes with him I have been super moody and sad. A couple of days ago when he talked to me for the first time in a LONG time, I felt so happy for days! That was honestly the best I felt in a long time! I'm thinking he was the reason for my happiness. Maybe I'm in love with the image of him I created in my head? He's always in my dreams so my head probably created a "perfect" image of him that's super different from real life. I'm so confused, I have had plenty of crushes in the past and they never lasted very long, but this one is so different. :(

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    So you don't know him well at all, and you *think* he doesn't like you. How do you know?

    Perhaps the universe is trying to tell you something.

    Ask him out and see what happens.

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    Well you wanna be careful, cause chances are he isn't exactly who you imagine him to be in your head. That aside, I say just let him know what you're feeling and give it a shot. Why not right?
    I'm not from Canada. I thought CA was california...

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