The 2+ year relationship that I came to you with 4 months ago is finally OVER - as in, no more back and forth, and no more communication period. The whole break up just seemed to be a drawn-out process.
But now that it is over, I find myself needing to make some new friends. I'd like to date, too - but finding a new circle to hang out in is my top priority. I am not from around here, and it is a small town where everyone grew up together and has known each other since grade school. So the only friends that I made while here were HIS friends (because we were together from the time I moved here).
I made a few nice friends, but all of the places they 'hang out' are also the places where he would be... and I just want to stay out of all of that until everything blows over completely (meaning he finds a new woman and could care less about me anymore). Because while we arent communicating at all, when I do happen to run into him I get the "looks" or he insists on speaking to me.
There isnt a lot to do here. Just a few small bars that people gather in, for the most part (which is where he always is - and one of the reasons we werent compatible LOL). I'm not much of a bar person.
I decided to go on Yahoo Personals and check out that scene. There were quite a few decent looking locals... and I even had a lunch date with one yesterday. It was a nice time, and we really seemed to have a lot in common - talked and laughed non stop. Oddly though, he hasnt called back since. Having been out of the 'dating scene' so long, I dont know if thats common practice, or if I should just hang it up and keep looking.
Anyway, I want to get out and have fun... but I want to avoid the ex and "his circle" altogether. I need something fresh and new. Any suggestions for meeting people, making friends, and finding other singles??