Masturbation unacceptable?

[Len]

My gf and I have a very good sexual relationship. We are open to expressing our desires and considerate of what the other wants.
Sometimes we bath together and both enjoy it.
Sometimes I like to watch her bath. She seems to enjoy the attention. I certainly enjoy watching! I would like to touch myself in masturbation style, just stimulation, not climaxing. But she does not like for me to do that. Otherwise, she is very accepting of sexual techniques and stimulation. So, overall, it is not a big issue. Nevertheless, it would be fun for me. Is there a way to overcome her dislike of this practice? Or, should I just forget it entirely?

[vashti]

If she isn't in to it, then don't push it or you will start to have problems in other areas of your sexualty. It is important to respect one another's boundaries.

[Junket]

Just have her jerk you off.

[anachronistic]

since when does touching yourself become the boundaries of another person's? this is nonsense.

[vashti]

Indulging in exhibitionism is a violation of another person's boundaries if it done without consent. It is also considered a paraphilia.

[anachronistic]

Indulging in exhibitionism is a violation of another person's boundaries if it done without consent. It is also considered a paraphilia.

i guess this really doesn't make sense to me if they're bathing together or something.

[vashti]

He's not bathing with her. he is watching her bathe and wants to masturbate while doing it.

[anachronistic]

if i were her i would probably throw the bar of soap at his crotch XD

just kidding.

[DoesntMatter]

It might be kind of antisocial if you're spanking the monkey in front of her like that. A little weird as well.... I honestly wouldn't feel comfortable in either of your shoes in a situation like that

[anachronistic]

is male masturbation even very attractive to you ladies?

[Junket]

It might be kind of antisocial if you're spanking the monkey in front of her like that. A little weird as well.... I honestly wouldn't feel comfortable in either of your shoes in a situation like that

If my girlfriend got off to me takin' a shower. All the better.

[vashti]

is male masturbation even very attractive to you ladies?

Not to me. *Imagining* it is one thing; witnessing it is another.

[anachronistic]

i didn't think so. female masturbation really isn't attractive to me either.. unless i am a part of it.

[Tiay]

Y'know, I didn't think I would, but I love my boyfriends cock.. 0.o

anyway.. with any sexual thing that you want to do, you can negotiate for it. Is there something *she* really wants to do that you don't usually do for her? trade it.
this sounds "wrong" to some but it works.

[Junket]

i didn't think so. female masturbation really isn't attractive to me either.. unless i am a part of it.

Watching is being part of it.