So I'm seeing this girl. We had a thing a few years ago which petered out...nothing bad happened, life just seemed to get in the way. Fast forward to a few months ago, and we are hanging out again. We had a conversation where we both expressed liking each other and wanting to see what happens, but she also confessed that she wasn't ready for something serious and wanted to take it slow due to getting out of a "long" relationship not too long before we started hanging out again.
I think she is being honest and not just trying to keep me at arms length, but I've been having trouble with really accepting this. Mainly I don't really know how to take things which I'm excited about slow, and I don't understand the logic of wanting to do that if you are also excited about something. I am ready for a relationship with her, but I'm also willing to wait a bit if she's not. What I'm worried about is whether she actually sees this going somewhere or if I'm just a distraction, I don't have time for that.
Its been about a month since things went beyond friends and we had that conversation...give it some more time before having another talk or would you bring it up now if its a concern? I'm not looking to make her my girlfriend yet, a little more definition would be nice though.