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  1. 06-08-08, 09:13 PM #1
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    Need harsh help

    I am to clingy to my gf. I strive for affection. What can I do to stop being so huggy and kissy all the time? My gf dosnt give me any affection what so ever and with my clingyness its pushing her away. So what can I do to improve myself? I want to stop this for the sake of my relationship
    TJ the µß3R Trance Junkie
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    Get therapy. You have issues with insecurity and respecting other people's needs.
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    Or find a g/f who's into the same things (clingy too).
  4. 07-08-08, 03:01 AM #4
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    Do you have any other hobbies?
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    Get busy with self-improvement. Education or physical activity. More productive activity.
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    Well I skate and run a 24hr lan every fortnight. But when ever I'm with her I just latch on. Its becuse I don't want to loose her and I have never had anyone treat me the way she dose. She is the only person who respects me as a person.
    TJ the µß3R Trance Junkie
  7. 07-08-08, 02:49 PM #7
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    Clinginess is a symptom of insecurity, if you can find what causes that insecurity in yourself and eliminate it the symptom will go away by itself.
    Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
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