Do you think that I am an a$$hole?

[carpflounder]

So my gf and me live together now. At first I was kinda like Yay pussy all the time!!

Now I'm just

We have had some rough times and she walked out on me yesterday..after shouting lies at me in the street..for all the neighbors to hear..she really sounded like a bickering bich. I was upset, so I tore up a nice card that she gave me.

This morning I looked in my shoe and my pipe was not there.
I looked around for it and then she told me that she hid it. She didn't tell me for like a few minutes and I was already running late for work.

Now, she did tell me that if she found it she would hide it.

But, she snooped..its not like she just came across it cleaning or some shit like that fair and square.
She literally just walked in and I stopped typing this post. She brought me a flower with a card and I threw it away
Do you think she is wrong? I'm not going to come home tonight. I haven't even told her this. What is a good thing to take and hide of hers??

She just told me that she will give it back in 2 weeks. What a bich.

Any thoughts??

[Tone]

Carp be nice!

At least she has the humility to make an apologetic offer! And it really is in your best interest anyways. You jerk! You threw it away...

I dunno though - I can definately understand why you would be mad, I'd talk it out with her.

[TAVS]

I dunno but whatever term people want to use to descibe you; with any luck you'll grow out if it.

[Debunkt]

Yeah, you just started living together and you're already doin this shit? Yikes.

I'm not going to put blame on you or her. You're both being children. Did you really desperately need your pipe before you went to work? Is it really necesary to hide that from her? (I mean if you're living together she should at least be cool with it.) You're both acting like a couple of babies, in my opinion.

[Tone]

TROOF RIGHT DURR!!

[vashti]

Just buy some papers.


And you'd better go home tonight, or she might find your stash and flush it. That's what I would do.
:-)

[indigosoul]

Just buy some papers.


And you'd better go home tonight, or she might find your stash and flush it. That's what I would do.
:-)

OMG....i can't stop laughing...this is really funny sh it...

<ding>... er, hello..? these two DON'T have kids, right?? Bad.

"she might flush it..." priceless...

[carpflounder]

She just came in to my work again. This time I told her that I'm going to have to spend $30 on another pipe..and that for Xmas all I want from her is $30... or at least something that can be sold for $30.

That is the most simple terms I could say it.
She said that when I get home she will give it to me.


I'm still upset.

ssh! she can't get to my stash..don't worry about that.

[Rosebud]

Carp I can understand how someone going through your stuff can make you feel. You have a right to be upset, this is obviously important to you. You can't hold a grudge though.. The smartest thing you can do is when you come home get your pipe..thank her for giving it to you, and then hide it somewhere else. But she must ahve a problem with you smoking for her to look fort hat item and take it away from you. You guys may ahve some more things to talk about or compromise on.

ANd I don't think your ******* carp, i just think sometimes you may take things too far to make her feel a certain way ie..throwing away the card when she was apologizing to let her know how mad she made you.

[misombra]

you're not an ass.hole. you're a dick. lol jk.

i bet 10 bucks you're as.s is going home tonight.

[Vanilla Gilr]

Do you love her?

[carpflounder]

I'll be sure to tell her that she has been really childish. I'm glad that I'm not the only one who sees it.

[lovestruck]

i bet you'll end up saying sorry too.

[carpflounder]

Do you love her?

yeah.







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[vashti]

I bet he cleans the kitchen after dinner, too.