How should I feel?

[CAM]

Okay, was set up on a blind date with a woman about my age. She's single (never married) and lives with relatives--takes care of sick family members. There was almost an immediate attraction and we ended up doing some pretty heavy petting on Date #1 and more of the same on Date #2. No sex as of yet.

We've both been abstinent for years, so I'd guess that it is natural that we seek human touch. She's a very intelligent woman and very nice. Is fact that we went down that path quickly a function of basic human need or does it mean that we're both just a couple of immature sex fiends? I

think I assume that things should progress a certain way, but I think that the fact they don't follow a prescribed course doesn't mean that things are doomed, right? I get confused when my dick gets involved

[1averagejoe]

Wear rubber underwear and pack it with ice packs. That will keep your dick out of it for a while.

Just because you guys were petting early on doesn't mean it's doomed. But, it doesn't mean it will work. It really depends...just see how things go.

[shh!]

Considering how long you've been abstinent, I think you should feel very pleased indeed. You aren't 15 anymore; why worry about formalities?

[IndiReloaded]

Okay, was set up on a blind date with a woman about my age. She's single (never married) and lives with relatives--takes care of sick family members. There was almost an immediate attraction and we ended up doing some pretty heavy petting on Date #1 and more of the same on Date #2. No sex as of yet.

We've both been abstinent for years, so I'd guess that it is natural that we seek human touch. She's a very intelligent woman and very nice. Is fact that we went down that path quickly a function of basic human need or does it mean that we're both just a couple of immature sex fiends?

I think I assume that things should progress a certain way, but I think that the fact they don't follow a prescribed course doesn't mean that things are doomed, right? I get confused when my dick gets involved

Let's see: attractive, intelligent, loyal to family, not slutty but not frigid either?

Oh my, has Cam finally found his soulmate?

Don't dive off the emotional deep end YET, its too soon. But have fun responsibly, Cam. You are both mature adults, so whyever not?

[misombra]

cam, it's time you let yourself go. you can't live in the past anymore. it's time to live for you. you only live once and your life is too short to dwell on a painful moment in your past.

go with it!

[Dasein]

How should you feel - HAPPY and considering your absintence - a little horny!

Don't over analyse..have fun and wear a condom

[Gigabitch]

You should feel used- she just wants you for your tumescent man treats.

Of course not, CAM. Jeeze. You should feel the way you already feel- cautiously optimistic and likely to burst. You aren't actually doomed, you know, CAM dear.

[starbuck]

Feel good that you're gettin' some...bow chicka bow!

[Charlie Boy II]

this seems "emotionlay risky" protect your heart. no but she sounds like a stroke carer/slut. the best kind.

[Charlie Boy II]

thank my post or i wont go any further

[anachronistic]

thank my post or i wont go any further

^^^ hahahahahahah!!!! (sorry cam) thanks-whore!

[CAM]

You should feel used- she just wants you for your tumescent man treats.

Of course not, CAM. Jeeze. You should feel the way you already feel- cautiously optimistic and likely to burst. You aren't actually doomed, you know, CAM dear.

I certainly was ready to burst during that first petting session. Wow, to touch female skin again, to kiss a woman's lips. I hadn't forgotten what to do, but it sure felt good doing it again. It was pretty obvious that she felt similar--it had been a long time for her, too--years.

So, the word "tumescent" makes its debut on LF, eh? Amazing descriptive power, Giga, and it accurately describes the physical manifestations.

[CAM]

Feel good that you're gettin' some...bow chicka bow!

For some reason, this reminds me of a line in the movie "Can't But Me Love" (1987), when the teenage character Ronnie Miller finally touches a woman's breast and goes home to check his diary or calendar and says:

"Seventeen years, three months and Five days. That's a long time to wait for some tit."

Well, it hasn't been 17 years; but I think that 6 years and 3 months was long enough.

[Citycat]

Well, it hasn't been 17 years; but I think that 6 years and 3 months was long enough.

Whoah! Wow! May I know your age?

[CAM]

Older. What's your age? Curiously