Dont know what to do Help needed!!

[Garch001]

Hello hope you all are doing well.


well i met this girl that i feel in love with. but there is a huge problem she is Engaged we talk to each other alot she knows that im interested and she said she is too she talks to me more that she does to her fiancee because from what i see he is ignoring her ( always at work even if he works for his dad) not even going out for lunch, i have been talking to her for about 4 months now, anyways now i dont know what is going on she says she is affraid of losing both which does not make sense to me but i can understand.. but what should i do when she asked me for advice?? she tells me what should i do.... i respond with i cant force u to make any choice but i want u to know that i would love to be with you. and also that you should make the choice that makes you happy



The longer story is at the bottom ... and thanks alot for any help












well im in a bit of a problem at the moment I met this girl over the summer which i knew before but not that well, anyways i was really interested in her for a while about 2 years ago i wanted to talk to her they told me she was engaged and so i backed off. now this summer i heard that she was not so i said let me talk to her it started of kind of well i sent her an email on facebook to ask her out after i talked to her in the street for a bit.

so she didnt answer me back for about 2 weeks then i saw her because my cousin is close with her family so i was always with my cousin and i kept showing up with him alot of times but i found out she is going to get engaged in a week so i backed off and was ashamed i send the email to her and knew why she didnt reply, so long story short i got invited to her engagement i didnt go my cousin calls me told me she got really mad that i didnt go and her face was like someone smacked her. anyways i went late. now i left out of town for school and i talk to her on msn alot it started slow but i told her im really interested and she said the same but she is confused so we just kept talking and its been 4 months now and we talk more and more each day. but its getting to a point where it is effecting me alot i dont know what she wants she talks to me more than her fiancee and mainly because he ignores her alot because of his job he is always at work and only sees her like 2-3 times a week.

[Time Piece]

From what I can gather she is engaged, correct?

If yes you have no business putting moves on her.

Why?

Let’s say you get engaged to her and while you are with her someone else is putting moves on her.

Would you like that?

Didn’t think so.

Think for yourself, do the right thing and leave her alone. IF her engagement doesn’t work out and she contacts you all bets are off.

As it stands now you are coming between them and confusing the situation.

Go find your own girl.

[Garch001]

im not saying what im doing is right i know it is wrong and i tried to stop it but we both end up talking to each other again

[miSSleepy]

Hello hope you all are doing well.


well i met this girl that i feel in love with. but there is a huge problem she is Engaged

end of story.

tell her to get on with her life with her fiance and lay off you, or make a decision to break off the engagement if it isn't what she wants. If it's what she wants, the you have no right to dispute that,.

[xO Lanna]

Getting involved with someone who is already involved is not usually a good sign. My sister is engaged but they are on the rocks. But she does not go out and talk to other men because that's not who she is. Obviously this girl seems to like to park her car in more then one space. You need to back away and find a girl who is dedicated to only one man.

[Time Piece]

im not saying what im doing is right i know it is wrong and i tried to stop it but we both end up talking to each other again

For Pete's Sake, what you are doing is WRONG and you have openly admitted it.

Again, IF you where to get engaged to her would you like it if someone else was making moves on her?

A: NO!

Soooo... think for yourself. Go find your own girl and let her figure out if this is the guy she is going to marry WITHOUT any interference form YOU.

What comes around goes around.