Please guide me !

[alijones81]

I know this girl for a while and she asked if we can ge together on new year eve and have couple of drink. She is really beautiful. And I really want to be with her, its just like I have found love of my life......Because this is my first meeting I dont know what to do...the thing is by person I am very and honest, by personality perhaps i am average, I dont thats a draw back, I want this to be good. past dating experience were not good...any advice

[King Zarathu]

ok ok ok let me set things straight. when you say

past dating experience were not good

no offence but that's your fault. you see the pink face next to the title "Please guide me !" that REEEEEEEALLY pisses me off. i mean, you have no idea how much i get pissed off by looking at that face. because girls will look at a guy with that face and be like "psh **** that.." because you're already probably complimenting her and all that shit--JUST LIKE EVERY GUY

to be different.. PLEASE change that pussy face into something like thaaaat's the face they'll want to date. remember, you aren't changing who you are, you're just changing your attitude.

now.. this means...

The way to make a woman like you is to:

1) Not act like all the other average guys out there.

2) Make her laugh.

3) Be unpredictable, challenging, and mysterious.

...of course there are more ingredients, but use
these for your next meeting.

Don't act nervous or uncomfortable. Treat her like
you've know her all your life... almost like she's
your bratty little sister.

Tease her and make her laugh. Have fun.

Don't be PREDICTABLE. Do things that surprise her.
Say things that keep her wanting to hear more. Tell
interesting stories, and don't answer her questions
directly... instead, make her work for the answers.

And enjoy yourself...

and hearing you say things like

it's like she's the love of my life

ok: grrr

ur gonna end up gettin hurt cuz she'll be like "listen I think we should just be friends" because you DID NOT do the steps above ^^ that i gave you.

do things, be yourself, it'll be OK

[Adonis]

be yourself and dont lie or be dishonest to her aslong as you stick to that you'll be fine but definetly keep some mystery to yourself dont tell her everything at once just make her keep wanting more

[gman796]

Dont be a nice guy. I have a friend that always tries his best to be sweet and nice and he can never get a girl. You have to have a little attitude and be mean every once in a while. Pick on her a little bit, maybe to get a lil cute argument up just to play around. JUST DONT BE TOO NICE. Most girls dont like very nice guys.

[doll69]

i must say...what LTsK8eR2gO is very, very true...(coming from a girl)

[King Zarathu]

i must say...what LTsK8eR2gO is very, very true...(coming from a girl)

*sigh* i love it when i can FINALLY get a girl to agree with me without arguing