how do you know that this person is the one?

[PussyCatDoll]

I mean really the one that you can spend all your life with

Like, i want to marry you and have babies with you and grow old and die with you-type the one.

i mean when you marry someone do all the insecurities go away?

[bluesummer]

No, all the insecurities don't just magically disappear when you marry someone. Of course not. Marriage isn't a cure-all for problems. In fact, it may even create problems where there were none before.

Regardless, I knew I wanted to marry my man within four months of being with him. I just KNEW. There was no way to explain it, it was just like stating fact. I could just see us old together, and it seemed right and just how it should be. Not dreamy or romantic, just......right.

[lesa]

There was only one man that did it for me like that. Like bluesummer said, I couldn't explain it. And issues don't go away but you know that you would love to spend a lifetime with them...and thoughout life ups and downs.

[vashti]

I mean really the one that you can spend all your life with

Personally, I don't think it is possible to know this for sure before you marry and STAY married for a long time.