hi there,
So there's this girl that works (studies) in the same building as where my office is but we are on different floors. The thing is that we have seen each other couple of times in the corridor / hallway /... and had eye contacts but unfortunately not spoken a word or even a smile. however i've the feeling that she's interested and i'm attracted to her too. Now I've been waiting to get a chance to see her again in the corridor or sth and it is just not happening (because of wrong timings or whatever). I mean I really want to see her again and say at least the damn "hi". The problem is that I never see her alone, she always has a company which makes it very hard for me to go and talk to her. So as she was suggested as "people you may know" on facebook to me sometime ago, I was wondering if you think it makes sense to send her a message on facebook or even send her an email to her work email address and start the conversation? or it will make a coward out of me implying i don't have the guts to say hi to her face ? by the way this is my first time ever with a girl. I like her but i dont want o go to her office for no reason because it would be very abnormal. I also know that we have some differences that may be a deal breaker from her side like that she smokes and drinks and i don't. I mention this because I'm afraid I send a message or sth and then after 1st time or so we find out we are not good for each other and then as we are colleagues it may seem awkward between us afterwards. Ok...I know I'm getting a lot ahead of myself so please ..i need some advice.
One more thing : I just found a cell-phone number that is probably her's on internet. Do you think its creepy to call her on phone for the first time like this ?is it the same as writing a message on facebook ?
Anyway, how can I get to meet her ? as I said I dont even meet her in the hallway in the past weeks. I mean I haven't even talked to her, How can I just go to her office or sth and invite her ? I'm waiting for a joint event or sth happen or that i see her somewhere to make a move, but this waiting is killing me...speaking of which a few days ago i saw her in public transport and she went to sit few sits behind me in the bus and staring to talk on phone..I missed this chance too...
..may be she's not into me after all..