She dumped me after her surgery

[wayne331]

My now ex. g/f of 1 year dumped me right after her surgery to go back to her ex b/f.,, 2nd maybe 3rd time back to him.We did'nt live together but spent 4 days/nights together and I'm pretty upset about it and now know I was her recound guy.

We are both 41 and were friends 20 years ago then reconnected last year. We got along very well and I wined and dined her and did'nt cheat and she told me she loved me,was so happy and that I made her feel so special and appreciated numerous times.Oh, the sex was great too, not just my side,really! Thats not or never was an issue.

I wasn't a door mat and had my own boundries. I also sent her flowers to her work on Valenties day/b.day, left her little love notes in her purse, jeans pocket etc. on ocassion.

I feel so betrayed and used and have been in No Contact for 6 weeks,,, 2 months sense dumping. I don't know why I still have strong feelings for her and miss her.

In her last email to me she apoligized to me, said sorry for hurting me ,, I was a great boyfriend, it's been tough for her too but it was something she had to do because she failed at it the last time. She broke up with him.

Any thoughts ideas what she failed at?

Even though I don't want her back do any of you think that after their 2nd maybe 3rd "Honeymoon" period is over she may contact me????

[whenweawake]

If she asked ud go back to her I can tell

[wayne331]

No,, it could never be the same.