epiphany

[cookieparty]

Hey there...just discovered that my boyfriend would rather smoke pot and watch football than have sex with me...having trouble processing this. Need advice.

[gartlas]

he is a bastard.it doesnt get any simpler.confront him about it,if he ignores u or just argues back,if he doesnt listen then u know ur wasting ur time with him and should leave.is it serious ur relationship or fairly new?tell us more and we can give u better advice

[Gribble]

Believe it or not, men, like women, don't always want to have sex. Nor are they there to serve you whenever you should happen to be in the mood.

I hate double standards. Usually women get the short end of the stick, but when it comes to turning down sex it's perfectly okay for women. However, if a guy does it he must be gay, impotent, or cheating.

Cut the dude some slack. Let him watch his damn football game and enjoy himself. I mean, he does have sex with you at other times, doesn't he? Or is he avoiding it altogether?

[cookieparty]

Yeah...we had sex earlier today. I just can't help feeling rejected. We have been dating for over two years and I feel that it is too early for this...what is to come if he is this disinterested already?

[Gribble]

Just because he doesn't feel like sex at the moment does not mean he's disinterested.

You've got to let him have his space. Let him do his thing now and then. Otherwise you'll suffocate him and he'll head for the hills. There's no surer way to drive a guy off than to give him hell for watching football and screwing around now and then.

[DoesntMatter]

Someone who prefers a drug over sex? Now I feel like I'm missing out on less

[Illusional]

so have you dumped him and when can we hook up??

wait i'm going have to take that back. i used to have a gf that i didn't care about and i'd rather get drunk then spend time with her. hahaha, simply put, you're shit out of luck.

raverboy

[gartlas]

are u talking on average or just once? if its juts once its probably a one off.if nt then ur just wasting ur time

[cheeze_guy]

What if u introduced smokin pot while watchin the game and sexin at the same time:O

[vashti]

I think now is the time to decide if he is going to offer you the life you want. If he isn't the right kind of guy for you, then move on and find the guy who will make you happier.