Why? You trying to get the most hits or something? It was a lovely personal gesture from her to you.
Really: Serious question. How does other people's opinions even matter to either of you? What reward do you get from strangers opinions of your romance? I'd really like to know the answer to that so that I can be more understanding to such personal (to you) information being thrown about, in the future
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion