Miss girl i ment a long time ago... what do i do?

[stupidusername]

Well, around 3 years ago i met this girl in juvenile prison haha. Well I really liked her.
She had the same sense of humor as me and everything, liked the same music...actually thought
I was funny. She was really cool. I never got to know her that that well ( i have pretty
bad social anxiety). But yeah..i feel like I messed up what could have been and shizz.
She said she was gonna hit me up on myspace after she got out..
well she never did, she had to stay in there for like another 6 months though... i dunno if
thats why, maybe she just forgot about me.
I felt like she liked me though.. I would have tried to contact her then but i got discouraged
cause she never messaged me...


But i just started thinking about her lately... like it's all I can think about... I've never
felt this way about anyone... I have so much regret I feel like I missed my chance...
I don't know what to do. If i messaged her myspace, would that be weird?...
it's been a long ass time... also noone uses myspace any more so I think it would be even
weirder. I don't think she has a facebook. She also lives a couple hours away, so its
not like any of my friends or anyone I know knows her... so I don't think theres any
other way I'd ever see her again.

[steviej]

Send her a message on myspace, you have nothing to lose. If she thinks it's weird and doesn't want to know you then accept that and move on. Don't turn this into a big fantasy where you get the girl, because you're setting yourself up for a big dissapointment! It's very likely that nothing will come of it, but it's worth a long shot.

[devonbrown]

I agree with steviej. Just send a casual "Hi. How are you? You popped into my head today and I thought I would see what you are up to" type of thing. But don't get your hopes up. If you reconnect, great. If not, it just wasn't meant to be.

Good luck.