jealousy

[icecreamISgood]

Has anyone here been in a relationship with a guy/girl who just doesn't seem to get jealous over anything??

In my last relationship, the guy was extremely jealous & didn't trust me. Now, the guy I am with completely trusts me & won't get even a little bit jealous.
Of course I like that better, but I don't know... I don't know what the point of this post was, but ya... I guess I just want to know how it's possible to never get jealous...

[dangerous]

by being very self confident

[Gigabitch]

Yeah, my ex was like that. I still wonder if it was because he trusted me completely or because he just didn't care all that much.

[Ellynn]

Yeah the last thing you want is an over jealous guy...... so probably dating someone who is the extreme opposite is kinda weird for you. But honestly.....passive guys can be a good thing. Don't take the fact that they dont get jealous as not caring for you. THey do...

[Only-virgins]

He doesn't care.

[DutchBoY]

He doesn't care.

Seconded. First thing I'd do is check his mails to see how many flings he has on the side.

[clynn]

No way!

Some guys are just naturally trusting and also trustworthy. Or, they may also adopt a "zen" approach to life. If you're going to cheat on him, you're going to do it --- and so he can carry on loving and respecting you and if you choose to behave in an untrustworthy fashion, he may be the type who knows that that is your issue, not his...and if it happens, he a) couldn't have stopped it, and b) you weren't worth it anyhow.

[DutchBoY]

No way!

Some guys are just naturally trusting and also trustworthy. Or, they may also adopt a "zen" approach to life. If you're going to cheat on him, you're going to do it --- and so he can carry on loving and respecting you and if you choose to behave in an untrustworthy fashion, he may be the type who knows that that is your issue, not his...and if it happens, he a) couldn't have stopped it, and b) you weren't worth it anyhow.

there was a touch of sarcasm in my post.....should've used a smiley to convey it

[xwfuro]

i think there are two types of people, people who are just naturally jealous due to they arent confident. and other people who know that unless given a reason there is no room for jealousy. I personally am never jealous with a girlfriend until she cheats on me or something? and then i start getting more and more jealous..

i think everyone is jealous over some things deep down but some people show it some others realize its not worth showing because it may start arguments or something dramatic. He sou8nds like a keeper!

[Only-virgins]

Some guys are just naturally trusting and also trustworthy.

Dream on. We all have fantasies.

Anyways, you don't need the lack of confidence to be jealous. I am jealous as hell and I am confident like a son of a B.

[misombra]

if you have so much to be confident about, then why are you so jealous?

[Only-virgins]

if you have so much to be confident about, then why are you so jealous?

Because the two have nothing to do with each other.

Confidence; to be expecting and/or always thinking of the postivie consequence one can do.
Jealousy; pissed the fawk off about someone cheating on you.

You know, im not talking about jealousy prior to cheating, rather after...are you saying that if someone is confident and their GF cheats on them they wont care and just go on? haha yea right....thats not confidence...thats stupidity.

[BlueRaven]

That's a hell of a point OV just made their.

[misombra]

jealousy is one ****ed up emotion.

[Only-virgins]

jealousy is one ****ed up emotion.

I agree, arn't they all though?

That's a hell of a point OV just made their.

That happens often, I tend to do it alot. lol