how will a girl survive when the boy broke up with her?

[ramjab16]

I am experiencing it right now...

I can't help but blame my self for what heappen..

Maybe If It wasn't becuse I pushed him to his limitations...

Maybe until now we are still together...

[dom58]

Dont blame yourself for everything
Im dealing with a breakup atm. Yeah it sucks,I feel sick all the time, constantly try and call her text her, dont sleep and blame myself

But tbh If you constantlyblameyourself then you'll feel worse
Im sorry for your breakup
In the ideal world we would all have the person we are in love with, sadly thats not the case

[ramjab16]

Dom58

yeah you're constantly right...

I just don't know how to deal with what happen to me...

The worse is...

I am still in love with our memories...

And I don't know how to get over it...

Some of his friends and mine are trying

to help us to be back in each others arms

but he refuses to...

I once beg for him not to let go...

But...nothing happens...

[Yggdrasil]

You can't FORCE someone to love you.

At least you see one thing right: you are living in the past, on memories.

The only way to get over it is to ACCEPT that it's over.

It feels like shit, I know, but eventualy it gets better.

Tell your friends to stop trying to get the two of you back together, they are only making things worse. It comes over as clingy, needy and immature.

Also, don't lower yourself into begging him to come back. At least go through this with dignity and without making a fool of yourself.

Grieve, feel like crap, cry, let it out. It's part of the healing process.

And don't contact him.

Also stop blaming yourself. It takes two in a relation. The blame is on both sides, not just your side.

[ramjab16]

Yggdrasil

Yeah you're also right...

For almost two years I loved him...

I waited...

On march 16 2009 it was officially us...

But I just can't help but think

that all that we've been through were

just ruin...

I know someday we'll find someone rightfully meant for the both of us...

T.T

[Bigboy77]

Best way to get someone back is to get over them.

[clacarica101]

dont blame what u have done! thats' no reason...if u were too jealous it means u couldnt trust on him!
it means he wasnt the right one for youin this period of your life! could be?

[ramjab16]

Bigboy77:
I hope it works...


clacarica101:
I guess the mistake is on me...
T.T

btw....tnx....;]