girls, what makes oral feel good?

[HiMyNameisNick]

ok so I figured it was better to ask in this section, because an answer from a woman would most likely be the best.

Now I would like to know how to "eat out" my girlfriend. I have tried it before but she really did not seem into it at all, I got no reaction out of here and I felt really stupid.

so I wouldnt mind a few tips thank you !!

(P.S. go over the basics with me as well because I dont really know what im doing)

[Coco]

First I have to ask... Have you ever taken the time to just look at a vagina? Where the clit is and such?

[HiMyNameisNick]

First I have to ask... Have you ever taken the time to just look at a vagina? Where the clit is and such?

yes I have

[Coco]

I sent you a private message. It might have been too obscene? for the forum. So I sent you a response in your PM's.

[HiMyNameisNick]

ok thank you, I will read my message. This was one of my concerns with posting here, I was unsure if this topic was the most appropriate.

[cmacattack1]

EYYY!!! Share the wealth here!!!

[IncognitoSir]

this should be in the intimate forum bro!

[lionwoman]

It's best to be slow and sensual. Many men make the mistake of being "too fast" when they are doing this. Occassionally pausing and making eye contact with her to ask if she's enjoying it before continuing is also good, as it shows that you care about her feelings and opinions. Have fun!

[vashti]

Do not pause and attempt eye contact if she is very aroused and close to orgasm. It is frustrating, and you basically will have to start from ground zero.

[LailaK]

Women are very different. It depends on your girl and what she likes.

I like to be teased so what Vashti described, pausing, making eye-contact, delaying the big o, is a HUGE turn on for me. Especially when it's paired with dirty talk.

Try it and talk to your partner about what she likes. Together, you guys can work on making it really great for the both of you.

One rule that's true for all women though: Men are sexiest when they obviously enjoy what they are doing. If you love what your doing to her and how it makes her feel, she's going to have a damn good time.

[HiMyNameisNick]

ok thanks for all the input everyone! keep it comin.

and in the 7 months we have been dating I havent been able to make her orgasm even once....not through sex/oral/fingers....nothing seems to work

[shheadz]

I'm still wondering what Coco shared with you.

[lhn]

Don't worry bout it Nick... a lot of women have a very specific way which makes them orgasm. You sound young(ish)??
Discovering how each others bodies work is all part of the fun. Maybe if you follow some of the advice you've had, she'll have an orgasm soon. But don't pressurise yourself and watch for her reactions.

BTW... some women don't make much of a reaction and then all of a sudden blow-up into a full on orgasm.. you have to kind of ask them if it feels good and if the pressure is right etc etc. Obviously don't stop in the middle of the act for a biology lesson. Just gauge it.

[vashti]

ok thanks for all the input everyone! keep it comin.

and in the 7 months we have been dating I havent been able to make her orgasm even once....not through sex/oral/fingers....nothing seems to work

If she can't bring herself to orgasm, you won't be able to, either. It requires a HUGE amount of emotional connection and trust for a female.