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    What is the next step?

    Hi I want your opinion girls,

    I met this girl in a cafe and talked for 30 minutes and asked her about her name and facebook account.
    I added her to my facebook list, and I wanted to see her again so I asked her to help me with my tax report (as that is her work).
    She agreed to meet me again the next week as she is busy right now.

    The thing I want to ask your opinion about is, although she agreed to meet me again, I think she doesn't see me as a potential boyfriend and the reasons are:

    1-On the cafe she didn't ask about my name or facebook account
    2-she said she will meet me after a week as she is busy (not before)
    3-I think she agreed to meet me, because I made it look like that I really needed help
    4-I saw a picture of her on facebook kissing a guy, the picture is 1,5 years old, but maybe she still has a bf

    my question is, what should I do when I meet her?
    1-should I ask her out
    2-should I make it indirect that I like her
    3-I shouldn't do anything, and wait for her to send me some signs

    waiting for your opinion, because I really like the girll

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    You're having your taxed done by her. I would use that opportunity to say something like: I'd like to inviting you for coffee or would that be inaproppriate?

    Sweet and simple.. and you'll know right away where you stand.
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    should I give her a small gift, as a thanks for helping me, and then see how she reacts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Goldi View Post
    should I give her a small gift, as a thanks for helping me, and then see how she reacts?
    Absolutely not, unless you want her head to turn 360 degrees before she starts floating in the air and spitting green slime.

    Sort of like this gall:

    [ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8qG5V2iBvFs"]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8qG5V2iBvFs[/ame]
    Last edited by Yggdrasil; 01-06-09 at 08:25 AM.
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    Should I ask her out? I think it is too early to do that. I saw her photos in the facebook and I am more attracted to her now, she seems a fun and a cute person. But If I didn't ask her out, then how to see her again?

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