Women Approaching Men..

[letan]

There is this cute guy who goes to the same school I go to.
Everytime I pass by him, I feel like he always look at me up and down, but he just never tries to talk to me. I'm thinking maybe I should make the move.
I'm thinking like maybe I can write on a piece of paper my phone number and the phrase 'call me'. That is after I introduce myself. I don't know maybe that would seem a bit desperate and easy?

What would you girls do?
Have you ever approach men before?
Or you just always wait for the man to do it?

[vashti]

Why don't you just try striking up a conversation with him first? After talking to him for a couple of minutes, you might find you don't WANT him to call you.

[NeoSeminole]

I've never understood why women hesitate to approach a guy. I would think being hit on every single day would boost your confidence. You also don't have to worry about exceeding our expectations; a simple "hi my name is ___" will suffice. Any guy would be happy just to be approached by a woman.

[Gigabitch]

Look him right in the eyes and give him a great smile. If you get nothing back, he's not the guy for you anyway.

Oh, and if he asks you out, warn him ahead of time about your mom.

[letan]

Oh, and if he asks you out, warn him ahead of time about your mom.

no doubt i always do..lol

[vashti]

I would think being hit on every single day would boost your confidence.

What makes you think women are hit on every single day? And even when we ARE hit on, it is often by crazy, scary, or smelly guys.<-- Not such a confidence booster. Men who are good catches are often unwilling to talk to women. I know several VERY eligible bachelors around 40 who want to find someone, but probably never will because they are too shy. Such a waste.

[letan]

What makes you think women are hit on every single day? And even when we ARE hit on, it is often by crazy, scary, or smelly guys.<-- Not such a confidence booster.

LMAO. That is soooo true. LOL.
I used to feel so low when funny looking dudes approach me. I kept thinking how can a guy like you think you have a chance with a girl like me? But i guess I got used to it

[vashti]

LMAO. That is soooo true. LOL.
I used to feel so low when funny looking dudes approach me. I kept thinking how can a guy like you think you have a chance with a girl like me? But i guess I got used to it

Aren't you the girl with the crazy-protective mother? You better be nice to the lesser-attractive men. They might be the only ones that will put up with your mom.

[Gigabitch]

LMAO. That is soooo true. LOL.
I used to feel so low when funny looking dudes approach me. I kept thinking how can a guy like you think you have a chance with a girl like me? But i guess I got used to it

It's that damned cocky/ funny guy who writes all those books. Michael Somebody. He's giving them all ideas.

[letan]

Aren't you the girl with the crazy-protective mother? You better be nice to the lesser-attractive men. They might be the only ones that will put up with your mom.

Like I said heck no, I rather be single.

[letan]

It's that damned cocky/ funny guy who writes all those books. Michael Somebody. He's giving them all ideas.

Oh my. Like what ideas?

[Gigabitch]

Oh my. Like what ideas?

Like "no girl is out of your league" ideas. For most guys, it's a much-needed confidence boost. For some, it's evidently a license to harrass.

[letan]

Like "no girl is out of your league" ideas. For most guys, it's a much-needed confidence boost. For some, it's evidently a license to harrass.

LOL. Too funny.