Lost

[EricBB]

My ex-girlfriend and I dated for a beautiful month and a half. Everything was great up until about two weeks ago when I was supposed to go to a company picnic with her , I wasnt ready in time to go , so she got upset that I wasnt going , so instead of me going I had my friend come get me from her place to go workout....my dumbass sent her a text out of pure impulse and told her that we needed a break from each other...she text back saying " i will bring you your stuff , I want my keys back". well then later after she brought all my stuff , I didnt like where it was going so I send her a text saying " This sucks" and she says what does? I said "this". she says " you wanted this , I dont know why you are so broken up about it". Well to make this shorter , I apologized and I thought we made up..........That following saturday , we were throwing a bachelors party for my friend , and got robbed by the "strippers" and I text her and tell her what happened , she text back and says "sucks. Im going to bed" then a few minutes later tells me "look Ive been thinking I dont think it is such a great Idea , we need space for awhile , Im not going to the wedding".I gave her space for the rest of the weekend then i tried to call her all monday , and she doesnt pick up or reply to my text , so I go by her apartment to bring her flowers and she doesnt come to the door , instead she has the police officer that lives in her building to escort me out....I was crushed. Tuesday I send her a text apologizing , and she text say " thank you for your apology but I dont want to talk to you anymore" , you are no longer welcome at her apartment building , she will bring the rest of my stuff then after that "leave her alone". Well its been two weeks since all of this and she still wont talk to me......What can I do to get her back? like I said everything was great between us up until that picnic thing.....I need help on this......because I know there is something else bothering her

[FullofSighs]

There is nothing you can do, her mind is set. And if you two ever get back together, it will be in like 5+ years. So you just have to move on, and forget about what happened. This is something you won't be able to fix, just have to leave it at that.

[EricBB]

Why do you think she is doing this?

[Carmen]

Because she knows that if you're fighting and asking for a break at the beginning of the relationship it will not get any better as time goes on. You showed her that side of you and she didnt like it. I think you need to move on.

[chump4u]

You stood the girl up when she was depending on you to escort her to a picnic, then you broke up with her without warning, then you texted her in the middle of the night to tell her that some strippers stole your money...and now you wonder what her problem is?

Her problem is that she didn't have her policeman neighbor shoot you when she had the chance.

"What can I do to get her back?" I hope she has enough self-respect that there is nothing you can do to get her back.

"...I know there is something else bothering her." Believe me, she's got enough bothering her (see first paragraph) to cause her to boot your ass out of her life. She doesn't need any more than she's got. If she happens to get more-- if you keep harassing her, that is-- she just might have her cop friend do what I suggested. And she'd be justified.

[Mish]

Also the two of you haven't been together for that long, asking for a break after a month and a half of dating wasn't such a good idea. I don't think there is much you can do to get her back. Stop contacting her and if she still like you she will let you know.