Hello everybody, I work a a chef in the Royal Air Force and I have known this girl for 2 years now that I work with. We have always got on well. But over the last 4 - 5 months inside I feel a lot more for her and I really just can't stop thinking about her. We always have a good laugh and a flirt at work. Always chatting on Facebook and now and then on the phone. I feel really comfortable around her, I like her presence and she makes me laugh and always happy.
Last friday I was out down the local with her and a few other mates. Someone from work asked me if I liked Kirsty as we seem to get on so well. I replied, yes I do like her very much. Then this person decided to drag Kirsty in the girls toilets and she said that I told her I love her. Kirsty came out of the toilet and she told me what had been said and I said to her that I never said I loved you, bet yes I do like you alot, we gave each other a hug and then just carried on with the night.
When I woke up in the morning all I had in my head was Kirsty and how much I like her. So I text her saying that I really like you and have very strong feelings for you. I never got a text back for around 2 hours so I text her again aplogising for making myself look like a tit. She then text back saying dont be silly you have not made yourself look like a tit.
The next day at work she asked me if everything between us was ok and that I was not going to act funny around her at work. So I said of course not and to be fair on the out side everything has just been just fine. But inside its really killing me.
We still chat all the time at work, and then on the phone and Facebbok chat int he evening. I really dont know what she is thinking.
Obviosly gossip has got around the kitchen and Ive had people come upto me and say she does not want a relationship because, she has a child and thinks I wont like her beacuase of this ( She is a single mother) Also that she is a higher rank than me.
I don't wanna keep pressure rising her so she just dont speak to me at all. I really just need advice on how to go about it and what to do next. I'm at home now and she is at work, I really wanna text her but Idont wanna come accross like a stalker or anything. Just wanna make conversation.
She is 25 and I am 26