lost motivation HELP

[lilwing89]

hi. im 16 and male.
over the years..i have been gradually losing interest over masturbation, and well, now i just feel like i cant get jackin unless there is porn at hand. and i wanna jack off cause it feels good. but i just lost motivation..

is this normal? how can i build back up the motivation

a very sad lilwing

[lilwing89]

anyone? please?

[shh!]

Why don't you just stop for a while and wait for your drive to restart itself?

[Cybog]

Um, do you need porn? Because if anyone knows porn, it's your dear old uncle Cybog....

[missguided.rose]

I read this article once about how it's possible to somehow alter what turns you on by watching too much porn. The study found out that some people who watch a lot of porn sometimes feel like they can't get turned on any other way. Whether it's true or not, who knows. But give the porn a break, no one says you have to masturbate or have sex (X) amount of times a day. Do it when you want, try and use your imagination instead of the porn.

[Only-virgins]

Then get porn.

[Tone]

Is it wrong of me to say sometimes I wish there was some sort of age verification to post on this forum?

[Cybog]

lol how come?

[misombra]

i have a friend who was married to this guy who was addicted to porn and deprived her of sex until she eventually divorced him over it. the sad thing was that he didn't admit to the problem until she filed for divorce.

[whaywardj]

I read this article once about how it's possible to somehow alter what turns you on by watching too much porn. The study found out that some people who watch a lot of porn sometimes feel like they can't get turned on any other way. Whether it's true or not, who knows. But give the porn a break, no one says you have to masturbate or have sex (X) amount of times a day. Do it when you want, try and use your imagination instead of the porn.

I'd like to read your posts, but your selected font is so small it goes me a headache to try.

[whaywardj]

and i wanna jack off cause it feels good. but i just lost motivation

Is there something very odd about this, or is it just me? Why would you be concerned over not doing something you have no motivation to do? Because you think you're SUPPOSED to? I'm not following the logic of your concern.

[shh!]

Don't you have kids, whaywardj? Most 16 year olds make little logical sense....

[whaywardj]

Yeah. But my son was with his mom and her new, improved husband during his terrible teens, and I was a week-end daddy. I missed the whole process. That's part of why him and me are housemates now. We're salving over the wounds of a painful past with the balm of a pleasant present. He's 26, now, BTW.

[Tone]

lol how come?

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