fingering my girl...no pleasure!!!!!

[suspence]

im alittle confused.i used to be able to fingure my girlfriend and she would orgasm, no problem. but now its takes an act of god to make her cum just by fingering her. is this normal or do i just not "do it" for her anymore? any comment will help. thanx

[IKnowEverything]

Who cares?

[misombra]

oh gawd you're back!

suspense...how old are you and how long have you been with this girl?

[King Zarathu]

ha.. looks like he decided to come back for a short period of time.

[Only-virgins]

You dont do it for her anymore.

[shh!]

Nah - it could be she has become desensitized or is bored with his technique. Also, pressure to climax quickly really messes with a girl's head, and then you can just forget it.

[Only-virgins]

Nah - it could be she has become desensitized or is bored with his technique.

uhhhh..lol..thats exactly what "You dont do it for her anymore" means.

[shh!]

Well, what I meant was that she may very well still like him, but his technique may need some work. However, I suspect that the pressure to climax on demand may be the largest factor. Girls don't work that way.

[Only-virgins]

I suspect that the pressure to climax on demand may be the largest factor. Girls don't work that way.

How is it that they work then?

[misombra]

you have to take your time with a woman ov. a lot of guys want to give their women two minutes of foreplay and then get it on. that sucks. you have to feel her and be a bit perceptive, you know? and you can't expect that just because she's not getting pleasure from it that you should stop, you should try something different. slow down you guys, sloooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooow...

[misombra]

but not too slow.

[Only-virgins]

uhhh...so how slow and how fast misombra?. What if I am giving forplay and she wants me to get on it...it will piss her off if I take forever and my time no?. Ahhh thats confusing. I definitly have no idea what you mean but "perceptive".

[boobaa]

Too little fingers, or the girl has grown bigger...

[Asip4u]

you have to take your time with a woman ov. a lot of guys want to give their women two minutes of foreplay and then get it on. that sucks. you have to feel her and be a bit perceptive, you know? and you can't expect that just because she's not getting pleasure from it that you should stop, you should try something different. slow down you guys, sloooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooow...

---I agree with this post---

[whaywardj]

I agree with the post that agress with the previous post.