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Thread: Hey girls, I need help. Thank you in advance. RESPECT.

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    Hey girls, I need help. Thank you in advance. RESPECT.

    Hi, my name is Iwan. I have a crush on someone, her name is Elisabeth. We studied Business Management at the same University. I know her, she knows me, but we haven't get acquainted yet. We just had eye contact, but never smile to each other. So we've graduated on early 2017. I never meet her again, but we live in the same city. And I ain't gonna lie that I have a crush on her since April 2017. I know it's too late. And now I'm stuck with this situation. I'm confused how to get acquainted with her. I followed her instagram and she followed me back. I liked some her photos, so did her. I feel she could be the best partner for me. So, please help me, how to get acquainted with her? I feel silly if I send her a direct message on Instagram, like "hello Elisabeth!". Do you guys feel the same? If you were her, Do you realize that I have a crush on you? Or do you feel annoyed or upset by getting a direct message from me? Please guys, help me. I can't live my life alone forever, I need a partner to accompany me.

    With so much respect, I need your advice. 😢😢😢😭 thank you. Have a blessed day!

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    What would be the first steps in order for you to get acquainted with this woman?
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    Hmm, I would friend her on fb if I were you, if she has one and you do too. Then after a little while, you could message her and ask how she's doing, maybe ask a question relevant to your shared history: "Hey Elisabeth! How has life been since graduation?" Or something like that? I feel like messaging people on fb is less weird than messages through insta, but that could just be me. If I were her, no I wouldn't realize you had a crush on me, maybe liked how I looked or as a friend sort of, but not to the degree that you like her.

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