You can see from searching that I have posted about my relationship in the past.........
In a nutshell I met my partner 16 months ago, we broke up in January this year for about 6 weeks whilst she dealt with some depression issues. We have enjoyed some great times since getting back together, going on holiday, expressing our love, days out and talking about a future together. She dealt with some personal issues that have made her a stronger person, raised her self esteem and generally made herself feel better about herself. We still have an issue that despite us having professional help about shadowed our relationship......SEX.
I want to jump on her every time I see her and she is quite happy to have sex once or twice a month and even when we do its not stroking, touching and long lasting. She wants a quick bang and then lights out, where I would like to take my time, enjoy her body and talk to improve things between us. She will not change her way of thinking and cannot understand what my problem is as she tells me that she loves me, is faithful, is a great girlfriend so why i this not enough for me. I on the other hand cannot understand that if she fancies me and loves me then surely she can adapt a little to meet my needs. We are in a bit of a stalemate at the moment with us both having some time to think about what we both. We get on great have trust, support, care, love, affection, laughter and the only issue is the differences with the sex. After her recent counselling maybe now it is time to see a sex therapist again?