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    Work relationship problem

    Hi, Me and a guy at work have finally relised that we both want the same things. the only thing is that we only really get to see each other at work at the momment and both want to keep our "relationship" descrete at this stage from our collegues. We flirt like hell with each other at the momment at work and now relise that unless we hide this from our collegues tounges could start wagging. Has anyone else had this problem??? How do you suggest that we keep our relationship from suspision while at work but still have something there that we can relate to and enjoy.

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    Do things outside of work... and just dont say anything about it at work. Thats your best bet. My mom (head honcho) is dating someone who works for her. At the office they say nothing. Three years later and Im still the only one that knows about it.
    An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.

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    [QUOTE=Ratfish256]Do things outside of work... QUOTE] This is not always possiable at the momment and unless we chat and flirt with each other at work then it is as dull as hell. Our possitions at work dont help eithet much he is the assistant manager and i a section supervisior. There is the chance to work with each other at the weekend if we get the rotas right but at the momment its not going our way. Even when we are alone together at the weekend cameras surrond us!! What could we do outside of work that would make up for the time lost at work.

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    Go have fun together. Im sure your not working all the time. Try finding some event to go to. Maybe a light dinner and walking around town for a while. Like mini golf? Thats always fun.
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    [QUOTE=Emotion87]
    Quote Originally Posted by Ratfish256
    Do things outside of work... QUOTE] This is not always possiable at the momment
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    Why is it not possible at the moment?
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    closet!! go there on the weekend when no 1 is looking
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    dont mix work and pleasure.... dont

    be professionals at work, animals anywhere else

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    stop the flirting and keep things professional at work. this way no one will suspect anything less.

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