How can a man win you back after a break up?

[Prime39]

If you have broken up with a man you onced loved, what could the man have done to win you back? Give you space and time apart?? Or maybe something else?

[smackie9]

No because breaking up means they don't want to be with you anymore period, they want it to be over.

[robotchick20]

I've given chances, i've been told i was weakhearted one time because of it. I believe it depends on what caused the break up, wether she's no longer interested or wether you've done something that could easily be preventable like cheating ect. Then i believe there needs to be a change and a complete one at that before she could even concider being with you again.

[Prime39]

But how can a woman "lose interest" so easily? From being in love, and planning a future together and then just lose interest. Is that really possible? Can I woman really be that cold blooded?

[Prime39]

Robotchck, thanks for the reply. I'm interested in why specifically you given chances? Was it the man's persistence? Begging? Did they leave you alone for a while and then contact you later? What exactly where the actions they took to get you back?

[surfhb]

Robotchck, thanks for the reply. I'm interested in why specifically you given chances? Was it the man's persistence? Begging? Did they leave you alone for a while and then contact you later? What exactly where the actions they took to get you back?

Its called a break up....you need to move on a do other stuff and not contact her or it will drive you insane. Weve all been there my friend

[Prime39]

I am going isane! It sucks! Unfortunately I did contact her again today and gave it one more good try. Predictably it did not work. But I was at least able to spill my guts to her, and I got everything off my chest. I told her I wouldn't contact her from now on, I feel better. I gave up all hope now, and I told her this. Now I feel I can take some time to lick my wounds. And hopefully move past the denial phase.

[surfhb]

I am going isane! It sucks! Unfortunately I did contact her again today and gave it one more good try. Predictably it did not work. But I was at least able to spill my guts to her, and I got everything off my chest. I told her I wouldn't contact her from now on, I feel better. I gave up all hope now, and I told her this. Now I feel I can take some time to lick my wounds. And hopefully move past the denial phase.

You The man!!! Believe me....all this wont matter in a month or so. And when you meet another fine girl? You'll have to stop and try to remember what this girls name was.

[robotchick20]

But how can a woman "lose interest" so easily? From being in love, and planning a future together and then just lose interest. Is that really possible? Can I woman really be that cold blooded?

Who said they can? Women are able to hide their feelngs alot easier then men. It's known as a fake smile! Alot of guys miss read that and see that as "ok she's officially moved on and is soo much happier without me" when she could easily have a shattered hear and be missing you. Never throw it into conclussion, but keep you'r mind open.

[robotchick20]

But how can a woman "lose interest" so easily? From being in love, and planning a future together and then just lose interest. Is that really possible? Can I woman really be that cold blooded?

Who said they can? Women are able to hide their feelngs alot easier then men. It's known as a fake smile! Alot of guys miss read that and see that as "ok she's officially moved on and is soo much happier without me" when she could easily have a shattered hear and be missing you. Never throw it into conclussion, but keep you'r mind open.

[robotchick20]

Robotchck, thanks for the reply. I'm interested in why specifically you given chances? Was it the man's persistence? Begging? Did they leave you alone for a while and then contact you later? What exactly where the actions they took to get you back?

LOVE! I love him and know he just needs help.

[smackie9]

But how can a woman "lose interest" so easily? From being in love, and planning a future together and then just lose interest. Is that really possible? Can I woman really be that cold blooded?

Because she met someone else.

[smackie9]

Tip: to be more desirable is to be undesirable. Making yourself less available, and dating girls will increase your value and your self esteem. Nothing makes look more weak than being a sad sac, begging idiot, sending gifts and love letters etc.