I spend all day, every day talking to a man who lives in another state over the internet. This has been going on for about four weeks now. He came to my state and we met at a function. There was an immediate chemistry - not necessarily sexual, just an instant connection. He went home and that was when the internet chit chat began.
We both have partners. We don't really speak of anything deep and meaningful. Our partners are acknowledged in our conversations, but never really discussed.
I find lately I am living for the times when we chat. He is all I think about. I find reasons to contact him, and once we start, we go on for hours. This past week, we have been chatting constantly (in between little bits of work, lol) from about 9am until 5pm.
I might be at a family bbq, but I'll have my iphone out checking it ever 5 minutes to see if he's sent me something.
I'm becoming obsessed with him.
I have no idea how he feels about me, but he instigates about 80% of our conversations.
In the past week, things have gotten a little deeper. We speak of more personal things now. I went through a difficult time at work, and he talked me through the whole thing. My own partner couldn't care less.
I am confused and a little worried and have no idea what is going on here. I don't even speak to my best girlfriends as much as I speak to this guy!
Logic tells me he has to think there's some kind of connection if he keeps up the chatting too right? Do people who are just friends do this kind of thing?